making a living

Being a mom and a housewife I've worked for years without pay although I have had random jobs and do teach dance and knitting and make things for people, I've rarely in 28 years of marriage made enough money to be required to claim any income tax! And now I find myself in a position where I really want to make some of my own money and pay for the things that my family and I want and need very much and also to get myself out of debt.

It's a two steps forward one step back situation for me because I am still needed at home for non pay work babysitting Riley quite a lot. Sometimes I feel kind of hurt when women friends or just women I run into imply that I'm spoiled because I haven't worked outside the home much, I work very hard for my family and have given up a lot of opportunities to do my art because I had to care for another human being. AND being the kind of person I am I can't do anything half way! I have to do a good job of caring for others, I don't just put Riley in front of the tv and ignore her while I do my own thing, only sometimes when I really have to do something. I spend time cooking, playing, reading with her because I think it's an important job to care for someone else. I do have a bit of a martyr attitude sometimes, but I also try not to dwell on it much.

I actually believe that in a weird way what was supposed to be a feminist revolution that brought women out of their homes and into the work place is a bit of a sham. Women have really only gained more work! Now they are expected to do everything at home, be good mothers, AND bring home the money too. I AM completely feminist in my beliefs and would never say that women should have to stay at home and care for their homes, but the fact is that most human beings like to make their homes pleasant, and that takes a lot of energy. But this is a complex topic and not the topic of this particular blog.

The topic here is that I've decided to make work for myself. On my own terms. Maybe I am spoiled or at least well appreciated by my life partner in that he does offer the financial support for me to live my life the way I want. So BIG thanks to Robert. I'm going to be selling a lot of my art and I'm so happy it won't have to be just a matter of me making thousands of pairs of pants or knitting my fingers off to make thousands of gloves with no fingers. I'm going to make the things I always make in small amounts so that the work stays enjoyable...

I'll be selling my felted & beaded flowers for belly dance headpieces, yarns, knit wear, leggings, beaded bags, jewelry...whatever my heart and hands desire on etsy!

http://www.etsy.com/shop.php?user_id=5295254

that's my shop that is still empty but by early March it will be full of goodies from me to YOU!!!